The masks he wears: animal lover
February 29, 2012
The Masks He Wears: Animal Lover
Anna Moss
Founder, Wiser Now
Author, RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS
and THE RED FLAGS WORKBOOK

Towards DISCERNMENT for a better world.
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What control leads to
February 29, 2012
Every citizen on earth likely has some sense of what control leads to. In first-world nations, we are watching the subjugation of citizens move forward at about the same rate as people are waking up to those subjugations. The red flags of maniacs are nothing new and they corrupt every kind of relationship in which human beings are involved.
The ultimate aim of control
In human relationships, control always leads to application of force. That force may be emotional, mental, financial, sexual, political, informational, spiritual, professional, social, etc. Justification for the need for control is rarely given in personal relationships, but often given in collective relationships.
In an personal relationship, the abuser may control his partner’s access to car, phone and internet with strict time limits, but without reason. In a corporate relationship, the abuser may control the employees’ right to contract to protect intellectual assets. In a political relationship, the abuser may control the taxpayers’ right to information to prevent full discovery and open dialogue.
The withholding of information always goes hand in hand with the manuevering to control and the use of force.
Anna Moss
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Family violence is predictable
February 28, 2012
The unfolding story in Chardon, Ohio gets sadder by the hour. My condolences to the family and friends of the victims. The loss of innocent life is a tragedy to behold and a great grief to experience.
Abuse of all kinds is a response to anxiety and as we all know, anxiety is off the charts right now. Despite the idiocy displayed by “professionals” who should know better, interpersonal violence is highly predictable. As the Chardon school shooting story unfolds, it will reveal many truths that thinking people can add to their personal knowledge base.
TJ Lane, alleged shooter and victim of family violence
The purpose of this post is to point to the truth about family violence in real time and a real case. Preliminary reports (which may later be proved inaccurate) indicate that the shooter’s dad is violent. Classmate descriptions of the shooter create the picture of a sad, lonely, quiet individual who was targeted by bullies at school. Let’s hope someone gets to the bottom of this aspect of the run-up to the shooting.
The fact that this boy’s outsider status was well known indicts the teachers, counselors and principals who did nothing to help him seems to be the routine for public school administration. They just administrate and are deaf, dumb and blind to the well known red flags of the escalation cycle, psychological triggers and the eruption of violence. They should be ashamed and they should be considered accomplices.
This demeanor could suggest a boy who was brutalized by his dad and who very likely grew up seeing his dad brutalize his mom. His fondness for what he calls “primitive hunting” may suggest animal torture. Both of these are huge red flags of more violence to come.
Lastly, I want to mention the zombie-like facial expression that classmates who witnessed the shooting up close described. This could be an additional clue to brain damage and/or pharmaceutical damage beginning to manifest as adult psychopathy.
It should be noted that nearly all school shooters have been rendered chemical psychopaths by pharmaceutical drugs, most especially anti-anxiety and anti-depressants. This crucial information has been assiduously edited out of mainstream news by agents of the pharmaceutical industry. Ten million Americans take these particular poisons and they don’t want anything to reduce that number no matter what the cost to individuals and society.
Anna Moss
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www.abuseinmarriage.com
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Ohio school shooting
February 27, 2012
Stockholm syndrome in the collective
February 26, 2012
Bing defines it this way:
Hostage’s sympathy for captor: a condition experienced by some people who have been held as hostages for an extended time in which they begin to identify with and feel sympathetic toward their captors.
The hostage
The United States has been in bondage for a very long time. With each passing generation, the instruments of tyranny have become more poisonous and more pointed. Very few Americans have realized the extent to which they have been held hostage, until very recently. Many are waking up every day.
Confusion and deprivation has broken through the invisible bars of mental imprisonment and the tide has begun to turn.We now look at the forms and laws that mock us and see them for what they are: the machinations of psychopaths.
- We look at tax forms that instruct to enter a sum divide by two, add seven, subtract three, multiple by six, add five, subtract nine, multiply by …
- We look at militarized police officers killing citizens with tasers
- We look at government conspiring with industry to sicken citizens and then feed off their carcasses and fortunes
It would be ludicrous if it weren’t for the suffering.
Those who have endured great adversity know that at some point there comes an opening through which flows courage, creativity, inspiration and renaissance, and it does. It can change lives and nations for the better and it can bring help from above.
Anna Moss
www.relationshipredflags.com
www.redflagsworkbook.com
www.abuseinmarriage.com
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The control card
February 25, 2012
A lot is said about control in relationships of all kinds. When getting and increasing control is an agenda, admitted or not, watch out!
Controllers' brains are different
In my experience and research, control is not sought simply for its own sake. It’s a stepping stone to something else and that something else is usually quite dire for the person or persons on the receiving end of the control mandate.
One of the ironies of pathologically controlling people is that while they are driven to control others, they have little or no self control.
In abusive relationships, control creates the circumstances in which the controller can harm the other person. He (or she) does this because it excites and gratifies him (or her). The harming phase can go on for days, weeks, months, years, decades during which the other person is destroyed bit by bit. The harming phase may culminate in murder, but this is not often necessary because the harmed person is usually more dead than alive.
So, when you hear control, just remember there’s more to it than that.
Anna Moss
www.relationshipredflags.com
www.redflagsworkbook.com
www.abuseinmarriage.com
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It cleans and it kills
February 22, 2012
Should we start requiring full disclosure of ingredients on laundry detergent labels? Read this and decide for yourself.
Common laundry detergents
A common chemical found in many cleaning ingredients (including those used to wash clothes, which are then worn next to the skin) is nonylphenol ethoxylate. This chemical is used in commercial pesticides. Because of its toxicity, it is banned in Canada and Europe. Yet it’s allowed widespread use in America. Hmmmmm.
More poisons in everything
Many ingredients in common use in household products contain chemicals that act like synthetic hormones or xenoestrogens. This class of chemicals is behind the explosive growth of obesity and sex organ cancers. These cancers are the result of the heavy use of synthetic estrogen in farm animals to fatten them for market fast. Humans eat their flesh and voila.
The hormone estrogen triggers rapid cell growth. The synthetic version of the real hormone creates the conditions most conducive to the development of out-of-control cancerous tumors.
prostate tumors uterine tumor
The Journal of Pesticide Reform shows that these chemicals cause severe damage to organ function, particularly to the heart muscle.
Similar to heavy metals poisoning, chemicals worn next to the skin enter the bloodstream. Their effects develop gradually. Some of the symptoms of toxic laundry detergents include:
- reproductive system failure
- sex organ cancer
- abnormal sexual development
- sterility
What shall we do?
Anna Moss
www.relationshipredflags.com
www.comingbackbetter.com
www.abuseinmarriage.com
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Florida ugly
February 21, 2012
It’s been going on for decades, but in the last it’s grown to shocking proportions. What is it? The roadside killing of privately owned horses. These animals are lead out of their owner’s paddocks, taken to concealed areas and slaughtered. Some carcasses are denuded of meat, some are missing only the fore or hind legs.
Butchered alive and died screaming
Police and sheriff are too busy with human to human crimes to attend to even the most egregious occurrences of animal torture. Florida is home to many aliens and immigrants who practice pagan and satanic rituals that require blood and live persons or animals. One of the latest incidents was the torture and slaughter of a miniature filly, who appeared to have been bled out or vampirized before her hind quarters were taken.
Here are some photos from the work done by Animal Recovery Mission.
Thoroughbred butchered alive with a blowtorch
As his owners found him, 16-month old hand-raised colt butchered in his stall
Mare burned after 80 percent of meat removed, when found her foal was trying to nurse from her
This will go on until individuals rise up and take measures to protect their livestock and expel the monsters who do this.
Animal torturer and butcher
A deep bow to those who work to end this hideous atrocity.
Anna Moss
www.relationshipredflags.com
www.comingbackbetter.com
www.abuseinmarriage.com
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